婚姻不是仪式也不是终结，而是一支漫长、复杂、亲密的共舞。最重要的是你自己的平衡感和对舞伴的选择。 (Marriage is not a ritual or an end. It is a long, intricate, intimate dance together and nothing matters more than your own sense of balance and your choice of partner.) —— Author：Amy Bloom